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I’ve been noticeably absent…

By Christy Eichers · Comments (0)
Thursday, April 25th, 2013

4-15-13 174I’ve been noticeably absent… not just from the Pink Tambourine Club, but also from my life. Last week, my father died. He had lung cancer and started chemo treatments in June 2012.  While he battled for his life, I battled situational depression.  I’ve always been a “go-getter” and was highly frustrated as I had become “productively paralyzed” and “creatively crippled.”

The Pink Tambourine Club is all about friendship. I can honestly say my friends were there with me every step of the way. And, I have no doubt they will continue to be by my side as I experience this next phase of the grieving process.  I’d like to share a bit of my journey with you. Maybe it will help you when you have a terminally ill loved one or perhaps my story will give you insight in how you might support a grieving friend.

I’m hoping to post a story about my journey each week for the next couple months.  I can’t make any guarantees, because I don’t know how productive or creative I’ll feel in the weeks to come.

My father was simply the best. Many people gathered together to celebrate his amazing life. He was a wise man and I shared some of the greatest lessons he taught me in this eulogy.

Thanks for all your support,

Christy Eichers
Founder, Pink Tambourine Club

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What if there was a SUPER bowl for women?

By Guest Blogger · Comments (0)
Tuesday, February 12th, 2013

girlpowersmallAfter following Miss Represntation’s (www.missrepresentation.org) campaign on Twitter (#notbuyingit) to identify sexist ads during the Super Bowl and simultaneously watching my niece and sister-in-law fall asleep during the game, I wondered, “What if there was a SUPER bowl for women? What would it look like?”

I asked some of my closest friends and drafted Super Bowl XL VIII.

The Event.  Would be collaborative not competitive. Free form where we meet to discuss and share ideas.

Storytelling about ordinary women doing extraordinary things. Non-contact. Focused on how to make the world a better place: ending world hunger, sex trafficking, and violence against women.

The Players. Would be multi-aged. Strong, talented, hard-working, passionate, focused, fair, cooperative, sharing the ball. Every player would matter and contribute. It’s the group hug, not the ego show-boating. It’s fair play, respect for opponents as worthy adversaries.

The Half-Time Show. Would be inspiring. A mix of living and dead icons of women who rocked the world of music (think the closing games of the Olympics, except not with the English theme but a history of women in music.) And please make me want to get up and dance!

The Ads.  Would celebrate amazing women in history. Short bios of successful women. A mix of serious and funny, athletes and innovators, social and environmental responsibility. They would feature service and non-profits too! Ads for teachers and nurses and CEOs and artists and adventurers. Let’s have fabulous women of all ages and cultures around the world, all kinds of beauty and fashion.

After reading the responses and sentiments from women/girls across the country, I understood that women were “not buying it,”  the Super Bowl itself.  Women wanted to know, “How many lives could be saved with each $3.7-3.8 million dollar 30-second commercial?” What problem could we be solving instead of “What caused the Blackout?” And instead of exploiting women in the ads and entertainment, what messages could we be delivering?

The Girl Effect.  As illustrated in bestseller Half the Sky, when women are in charge not only a family but a community rises. “Women invest 80 cents of every dollar into nutrition, medicine, and housing while men invest around 30 cents and are more likely to squander it on alcohol and other vices.”

The Girl Effect not only improves the lives of girls and women, but of boys and men.  When women’s SUPER powers are unleashed, nothing is impossible.

After learning about the Girl Effect last year, I was inspired to invent SUPERgirls Academy as a virtual and real space to unleash our SUPERgirl powers, change lives, and be our own hero.  If you’d like to learn more and be part of this movement, join me and other SUPERgirls of all ages on February 13th for the workshop “What will you do with your SUPERgirl powers?”  http://supergirlpowers.eventbrite.com/#

It is a place to unite, empower, engage, inspire, change, and experience the Girl Effect within you and beyond.  And a space to wonder, “What if there was a SUPERgirls bowl next year?  What would that look like?”

Share your ideas and spread the Girl Effect right now!

Sources.
http://bleacherreport.com/articles/1509802-super-bowl-2013-commercials-how-much-does-an-average-ad-cost 
http://www.forbes.com/sites/brycecovert/2013/02/04/super-bowl-ads-serve-up-sexism/
http://www.halftheskymovement.org/issues/economic-empowerment  

hemmerbwphotosmallCoach Kristi has always known and felt the Girl Effect in her life.   However, as a teacher, school counselor, and principal the past 20 years, she experienced first-hand how girls and women shrink in a classroom, a community, and the world.  Something needed to be done.  So, Kristi Hemmer quit her SAFE job and started her own business coaching girls of all ages to bridge the gap between what girls believe and achieve.  In addition to coaching, she designs workshops for girls, creates eCourses, and is developing SUPERgirlsAcademy (coming Summer 2013).  Kristi is also writing a book on social entrepreneurship for young changemakers.  She lives a virtual life:  nine months around the world and returns to The States to attend her niece’s birthday party, watch her nephew wrestle, and catch up with all the people she loves.  You can learn more about her at www.kristihemmer.com and www.168coaching.com.

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How to Help a Friend after the Death of a Loved One

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Tuesday, February 5th, 2013

Steel Magnolias imageThe death of a loved one is always hard to bear, and we all need the support of our friends and family to help us heal and move forward when we suffer a loss. However, many people find that when they experience a loss, many of their friends and family fail to offer them the support they need because they don’t know how to handle death. Some may stop calling or avoid contact. Others may act out in strange and inappropriate ways.

Good friends should be there through the hard times — and there isn’t a harder time that we can face other than Read More→

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New Year’s Resolution: 5 Ideas for More Time with Girlfriends in 2013

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Wednesday, January 9th, 2013

new yearsOne of my 2013 New Year’s ‘Intentions’ (sounds more flexible and dynamic than ‘resolutions’) is to spend more time with my girlfriends. I find that they challenge me, inspire me, renew my soul and make me laugh – all blessings that add to my positivity! We are all busy and the weeks fly by so I’ve found that I need to be very strategic, a bit sneaky and add events to my calendar to make sure girlfriend time happens. None of these ideas are new but when we are intentional and purposeful, we Read More→

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Carolyn’s Gathering

By Christy Eichers · Comments (0)
Wednesday, November 14th, 2012


A couple weeks ago I was invited to an event called, “Carolyn’s Gathering.” I didn’t know the hostesses and I didn’t know Carolyn. The invitation simply said, “Please join us – bring a friend and food and drink to share. These gatherings are in honor of Carolyn Rodriguez, a dear friend who taught us the value of gathering with women!”

The invitation came from a dear friend, Wendy Helgeson, who knew this would be right up my ally. I was excited and intrigued.

Throughout the night, I met some Read More→

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Who’s on Your ‘Dead Body Moving’ Friend List?

By Christy Eichers · Comments (9)
Thursday, September 27th, 2012

Yesterday I was in an unfamiliar area of town and was navigating my way around to find a parking spot. I eyed a block of open meters and parked. I couldn’t see any visible “no parking” signs, so I climbed out of my car to investigate the meter. As I was reading the instructions and digging through my coin purse I noticed a police car at the intersection in front of me. The next thing I knew the police officer Read More→

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